Friday, October 29, 2010

Decked Out

Avery can't ever just leave the house anymore. She has a whole plethora of items she must bring along these days. She has 4 purses she has to choose from each day, assuming of course she chooses one. In this photo you will note that
she has her backpack AND her fish purse. She seems to think she can't function with out her pacifier, something she is only to have at night. She suddenly decided that all of those hats I THOUGHT I wasted my money on were a must have accessory. And then there are her "boops." Her newest favorite. She will go anywhere as long as I tell her she can wear her boots there. That still does not mean that she will walk when we go, but at least she wants to go places. This was all done so that we could sit in the park and eat breakfast. Imagine if we needed to go someplace fancy like McDonald's!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Friday, June 11, 2010

Charity.... It's All About Charity

Another of the things about which I've thought a great deal lately is charity.  Probably because my life has been blessed so abundantly by others; particularly in the last year and half.  But I would bet that most all of us have felt the hand of loving kindness extended to us.  May each of us be grateful for what we receive.  Here is one of my favorite stories about charity taken from a talk entitled Now Abideth Faith, Hope, and Charity by Elder Vaughn J. Featherstone.  While his comments focused on welfare being the essence of the church, it clearly translates to true charity.  I recall when Elder Featherstone shared it at conference in April of 1973.  That just may have been before most of you were born!

Wagon after Wagonload

I have a great friend, Brother Les Goates, a great and gifted writer, and I asked him if I could lift a part of a story. He told how welfare first came into his home:

“But ‘as for me and my house,’ the welfare program began in the Old Field west of Lehi on the Saratoga Road in the autumn of 1918, that terribly climactic year of World War I during which more than 14 million people died of that awful scourge ‘the black plague,’ or Spanish influenza.

“Winter came early that year and froze much of the sugar beet crop in the ground. My dad and brother Francis were desperately trying to get out of the frosty ground one load of beets each day which they would plow out of the ground, cut off the tops, and toss the beets, one at a time, into the huge red beet wagon and then haul the load off to the sugar factory. It was slow and tedious work due to the frost and the lack of farm help, since my brother Floyd and I were in the army and Francis, or Franz, as everybody called him, was too young for the military service.

“While they were thusly engaged in harvesting the family’s only cash crop and were having their evening meal one day, a phone call came through from our eldest brother, George Albert, superintendent of the State Industrial School in Ogden, bearing the tragic news that Kenneth, nine-year-old son of our brother Charles, the school farm manager, had been stricken with the dread ‘flu,’ and after only a few hours of violent sickness, had died on his father’s lap; and would dad please come to Ogden and bring the boy home and lay him away in the family plot in the Lehi Cemetery.

“My father cranked up his old flap-curtained Chevrolet and headed for Five Points in Ogden to bring his little grandson home for burial. When he arrived at the home he found ‘Charl’ sprawled across the cold form of his dear one, the ugly brown discharge of the black plague oozing from his ears and nose and virtually burning up with fever.

“ ‘Take my boy home,’ muttered the stricken young father, ‘and lay him away in the family lot and come back for me tomorrow.’

“Father brought Kenneth home, made a coffin in his carpenter shop, and mother and our sisters, Jennie, Emma, and Hazel, placed a cushion and a lining in it, and then dad went with Franz and two kind neighbors to dig the grave. So many were dying the families had to do the grave digging. A brief graveside service was all that was permitted.

“The folks had scarcely returned from the cemetery when the telephone rang again and George Albert (Bert) was on the line with another terrifying message: Charl had died and two of his beautiful little girls—Vesta, 7, and Elaine, 5—were critically ill, and two babies—Raeldon, 4, and Pauline, 3—had been stricken.

“Our good cousins, the Larkin undertaking people, were able to get a casket for Charl and they sent him home in a railroad baggage car. Father and young Franz brought the body from the railroad station and placed it on the front porch of our old country home for an impromptu neighborhood viewing but folks were afraid to come near the body of a black plague victim. Father and Francis meanwhile had gone with neighbors to get the grave ready and arrange a short service in which the great, noble spirit of Charles Hyrum Goates was commended into the keeping of his Maker.

“Next day my sturdy, unconquerable old dad was called on still another of his grim missions—this time to bring home Vesta, the smiling one with the raven hair and big blue eyes.

“When he arrived at the home he found Juliett, the grief-crazed mother, kneeling at the crib of darling little Elaine, the blue-eyed baby angel with the golden curls. Juliett was sobbing wearily and praying: ‘Oh, Father in heaven, not this one, please! Let me keep my baby! Do not take any more of my darlings from me!’

“Before father arrived home with Vesta the dread word had come again. Elaine had gone to join her daddy, brother Kenneth, and Sister Vesta. And so it was that father made another heartbreaking journey to bring home and lay away a fourth member of his family, all within the week.

“The telephone did not ring the evening of the day they laid away Elaine nor were there any more sad tidings of death the next morning. It was assumed that George A. and his courageous companion Della, although afflicted, had been able to save the little ones Raeldon and Pauline; and it was such a relief that Cousin Reba Munns, a nurse, had been able to come in and help.

“After breakfast dad said to Franz, ‘Well, son, we had better get down to the field and see if we can get another load of beets out of the ground before they get frozen in any tighter. Hitch up and let’s be on our way.’

“Francis drove the four-horse outfit down the driveway and dad climbed aboard. As they drove along the Saratoga Road, they passed wagon after wagon-load of beets being hauled to the factory and driven by neighborhood farmers. As they passed by, each driver would wave a greeting: ‘Hi ya, Uncle George,’ ‘Sure sorry, George,’ ‘Tough break, George,’ ‘You’ve got a lot of friends, George.’

“On the last wagon was the town comedian, freckled-faced Jasper Rolfe. He waved a cheery greeting and called out: ‘That’s all of ‘em, Uncle George.’

“My dad turned to Francis and said: ‘I wish it was all of ours.’

“When they arrived at the farm gate, Francis jumped down off the big red beet wagon and opened the gate as we drove onto the field. He pulled up, stopped the team, paused a moment and scanned the field, from left to right and back and forth—and lo and behold, there wasn’t a sugar beet on the whole field. Then it dawned upon him what Jasper Rolfe meant when he called out: ‘That’s all of ‘em, Uncle George!’

“Then dad got down off the wagon, picked up a handful of the rich, brown soil he loved so much, and then in his thumbless left hand a beet top, and he looked for a moment at these symbols of his labor, as if he couldn’t believe his eyes.

“Then father sat down on a pile of beet tops—this man who brought four of his loved ones home for burial in the course of only six days; made caskets, dug graves, and even helped with the burial clothing—this amazing man who never faltered, nor finched, nor wavered throughout this agonizing ordeal—sat down on a pile of beet tops and sobbed like a little child.

“Then he arose, wiped his eyes with his big, red bandanna handkerchief, looked up at the sky, and said: ‘Thanks, Father, for the elders of our ward.’ ”

To my boys, may each of us have the spirit of charity with us always so that when the Priesthood calls, we answer.  It really costs us so little.

Love, Dad

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Family in Armed Forces - Follow Up

Angela asked what illness Grandpa Jack had.  It was called undulent fever and is not very common today.  Here is a link that will tell you more.  It came back to bother him for some years. 

Reference for Undulent Fever or Brucellosis

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Family in the Armed Forces

Ben sent Mom and me an e-mail over the weekend asking what we know about family members who served in the Armed Forces.  We don't have a lot of information, but Mom was able to find some interesting tidbits about Grandpa Paul in a history that Jane put together. From this we know that two of his brothers also served in the Pacific area, because he met them in the Philippines after the war was over but while they were still on active duty. Anyhow, she or I will post that here once she has it pulled together.  She's working from a typed hard copy to get this! 

As for my side of the family, about all we know is that Greatgrandpa Ez served in World War I and became the black sheep of the family for doing so because he was a volunteer. Unfortunately I have no information on where he served. Drat it all for my never talking to him about it. Grandpa Jack was deferred because of health issues.  My Uncle Charlie, Mom's brother, served in World War II.

The only "story" that I have about him from the war is one he shared with me about 40 years ago. It was nearly impossible to ever get him to talk about the war, and this was the only time he did. He was a foot soldier who rose the the magnificent rank of Private First Class. What he told me about took place during the battle of the bulge. My recollection of that is December 1944. He was in a truck convoy that was moving troops from one place to another when the convoy came under fire by German artillery. The Germans were quite good at hitting the target, to say the least. Generally the third round would nail whatever they were going for. The first round came in long, and the convoy began to come to a stop. The idea being to unload the troops and scatter them. Before the vehicles had come to a stop, the second round came in short. Not uncommon for the Germans to be long and then short. The third round would be on target; just about guaranteed. By the time the second round hit, the vehicles had come to a stop and the troops were clamoring out of them. Charlie was toward the cab which made him near the last to get out. From where the first two rounds had landed, he and the others in his truck could tell that it was either their truck or the one behind or in front of them that the Germans had lined up on. Then they heard the sound of the third round being fired. With no where to go for cover before that round would hit, the troops quickly got under the truck. Not a great place if it was your truck being shot at, but the only place for any degree of protection if it was one of the others. They could hear the round coming in and were pretty much saying good-bye to each other when the round hit right next to their truck, rolled under the truck, and did not go off. A dud! At that point they scampered away.

My best friend, Bobby Christian, who I loved like a brother and always thought of as family, was killed during the Vietnam War.  I'm not sure I've ever gotten over that loss.  But I have moved on. 

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

No Worries

Papa,

Mom said you were concerned that in my preparations for China I might sell my sewing machine. Don't be silly! I did offer to lend it to close family members for the year that we are gone but I would NOT sell it. Funny daddy.

Projects from this week:






I made the blouse in about two hours. I am so proud of it! The shorts took longer and were significantly harder, but I'm still proud.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

So, You Think You're Busy!

I'm teaching a Temple Preparation class this week for one of our young men who will be leaving on a mission to Brazil later this year.  The class is being condensed into two evenings, and he is the only student in the class.  I'm really looking forward to this because he is a great guy and will be a wonderful missionary.  As I was preparing the lessons, I got to thinking about Marriner W. Merrill.  I freqauently think of him when the subject of temples comes up.

Brother Merrill was a convert to the Church in 1852 and moved to Salt Lake City the following year.  A few years later; sometime around 1860, he moved to Richmond and was subsequently called to serve as the bishop there in 1861.  He served in that capacity until 1879 when he became a member of the Stake Presidency and served as a counselor to two Presidents.  He was called to be the first President of the Logan Temple in 1884 and then sustained in 1889 as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles where he served until his death in 1906.

What makes his story so interesting, and which is one from which I draw strength whenever I think I have a calling that is overwhelming (yeah, that hasn't been for a while!), is that he was not released as a counselor in the Stake Presidency until his call to the Quorum of the Twelve.  Which means that for 5 years he was serving as both a Temple President and a member of the Stake Presidency.

However, to echo the words of some of the more annoying TV commercials, "But Wait...There's More!"  He was not released as Temple President upon being called to serve as a member of The Twelve.  Instead, he served in both of these capacitites until his passing in 1906.  That's 17 years serving at the same time as an Apostle and a Temple President.

But wait...there's more!  And didn't you just know there had to be?  In 1899 Brother Merrill was called to serve as President of the Cache Valley Stake, where his term lasted for about 18 months.  I just can't imagine what it would take to handle being a Stake President, Temple President, or Apostle; but to fulfill all three at the same time, wow!  So whenever you think you are busy with Church callings, just remember Marriner W. Merrill.